Causes of Infidelity in a Relationship

There is this new drama we’ve been watching on TV that made me look at the wife- husband- mistress triangle in a different perspective. This drama is entitled The Legal Wife and it stars two of my favorite actresses- Angel Locsin and Maja Salvador. Anyway, I like how the story is build up, though the plot is quite simple and yes, maybe common too, but the story is so realistic you couldn’t help but wonder what if this situation happens to you. Here’s the storyline- a wife who struggles to help her husband and their marriage be accepted by her father; a husband who just wanted to spend quality time with his wife but then found the companionship he wanted with another girl; and a best friend who accidentally fell in love with her best friend’s husband. Can you picture it?

Trust is one of the foundations of a good relationship. And once it’s broken, it can definitely shatter your relationship with your partner. Infidelity is a leading cause of break- up. It can happen in any relationship, no matter how long you’ve been together. When it does happen, it can bring an enormous amount of grief to a couple.

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Why Is It Important To Have a Hobby?

Finally, I’m here again. I was sick this past week so I wasn’t able to visit my blog. I missed this though :( But I’m somewhat glad too because I had a one week vacation leave on work and it gave me the time to enjoy one of my favorite things to do- playing the piano. Well it’s been a while since I last played it and just to let you know, it was one of my childhood hobbies. The others are drawing (I loved drawing anime and cartoon characters); playing the baton (I learned that since I was a drum major during my Elementary days); and yeah, singing (do I have to explain this  ;-)

Okay, enough of that. It’s kind of refreshing to do your hobbies once in a while. It keeps you going even during boredom and monotony. Psychologists say that, a hobby develops keen interest among children and this in turn reflects in the kind of work they do. It can also be a great stress reliever.

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Finding Love Again

Remember the drama I’ve mentioned on one of my previous post about office dating? It’s the Taiwanese drama Just You. Well, after several weeks, I finally finished watching it. It was a very entertaining drama- just the right amount of comedy, drama and romance. The story is engaging too- from the complicated ties of Qi Yi’s family to his unresolved and hunting past relationship with his ex- fiancé. Sometimes bad things happen for better things to unveil.

‘Avoiding is a way to protect myself.’

If I don’t possess, then I won’t lose. This is what Qi Yi said to his Mom when he confided on why he created the dating ban rule on his company. Obviously, it’s not intended for his employees, but for himself.

Everyone has gone through at least one painful breakup in their life. When you take a chance on love, you are also exposing yourself to the possibility of getting hurt. Being with someone you care about doesn’t come with a guarantee that everything will work out right. Love and pain come hand in hand and it is true when they say that the more you love the more you get hurt. Parting ways with someone is never easy. No matter what the reason as to why the relationship ended, the fact remains that nobody comes home a winner.

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Why Do Some Guys Reject Girls?

Are you avoided like the plague by men? Do you wonder and worry about what could be wrong with you to be constantly rejected by men? Are you sick and tired of men not even giving you a chance before they find a reason to get away from you? :-?

If this is your reality, it’s time to take a close hard look at yourself and try to understand why you are always being rejected by men. Obviously something has to change or it’s going to keep happening.

So let’s take a look at some of the reasons why you might be getting rejected by men.

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100 Cute Things Girls Love When Guys Do

Girls are sweet, that’s a fact. I think it’s in our nature to be sweet, caring and thoughtful when it comes to those people close to our hearts. So when a guy does sweet things to you, admit it, it’ll surely melt your heart and will make you fall for him more.

Here are some of those cute things a guy does (or can do) for her girl. I’m starting to feel that I want to be in a relationship again :D

Anyway, here’s the list:

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Office Romance: Cupid at Work

I got bored last weekend and opened one of my most favorite applications on my iphone- VIKI- and I decided to watch a Taiwanese drama entitled Just You. I’m on the 3rd episode now and the story is quite cute and the characters too. But what really caught my attention and curiosity is the policy of the lead man who also happened to be the new boss in the company where the lead girl works. I think it is very realistic and a common scenario nowadays- office romance.

Inter-office romance is quite common. So what’s the big deal? Why should anyone be wary of office romance? The answer depends on how much you value your career. Depending on the circumstances, office romance can become a detractor from an otherwise successful career.
The following are some reasons why some people avoid office romance:

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How to Lose Belly Fat

With my work, I often encounter girls who wanted to get rid of belly fat. I’m working in a health and fitness company by the way. I think it’s one of the frustrations of girls, to have that sexy stomach so they can wear tight dresses without feeling self- conscious, not to mention those two piece swimsuits I’ve been refusing to wear for the last 26 years :D My Mom will kill me if I wear those. She’s quite conservative. So I might as well not take risk ;-)

Anyway, here are some things I learned during my 3 years on marketing health and fitness products. I follow some of these tips myself. I repeat, SOME :lol: So yeah, you’re right I don’t have that sexy, hourglass body shape most girls are dreaming of. Though I’m proud to say, I don’t have belly fat. Okay, enough of myself, here are the tips:

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Signs That a Guy is Afraid to Fall for You

Sometimes you just get the feeling that a particular guy likes you but for some reason he just doesn’t say or do anything to confirm what you feel. Like yesterday, an office mate told me this “Let’s say I have a friend who has a friend who likes you. What would you say to him?” :?:

My answer is “Maybe I’ll tell the friend of your friend that he should ask me personally?” And his answer? He said “Ooohh-kay.” Spell awkward :-?

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Healthy Ways to Feel Sexy and Pretty

Girls always want to look good, there’s no denying to that. But sometimes because of our busy lifestyle, we heavily depend on commercial beauty products to take care of our body. And I think I’m one of those girls. Ouch :D

But last week, I read an article about healthy ways to help us keep our natural beauty just by changing a little bit of our lifestyle. And I just want to share it in here, too bad I can’t give proper credit (link) because it’s in print. So here is the list:

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